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Hiring your DJ · 6 minute read

What questions should I ask a wedding DJ before booking?

Twelve focused questions can reveal how a DJ plans, communicates, handles requests and protects the night when something changes.

By NC

Pro event tip
Write down their answer to the overtime question. It is the single most common source of wedding-night friction I see.

Twenty minutes, twelve questions

You do not need an hour-long interview. You need twenty focused minutes and a willingness to listen to how someone answers, not just what they say. Below is the call I would run, in order, with a note on what a strong answer sounds like.

Are you available, and who will be at my wedding?

Start here so nothing else is wasted. Then pin down the name. If the company assigns entertainers later, ask when you will meet yours and whether you can request a change if the fit is wrong. A confident company says yes without flinching.

How many weddings did you play last year?

Not how many years they have been in business, which can quietly mean four weddings a year for a decade. Volume tells you how current their instincts are. Anywhere from about twenty to forty weddings a year usually means a full-time professional who is still fresh on the day.

Have you worked at my venue?

If yes, ask what they would do differently in that room. If no, ask how they prepare. Listen for the practical details: load-in access, where the power is, whether the ceremony needs a separate sound system out in a field.

This question sorts people quickly. Entertainers who work a region hard, like Sunset Entertainment around Rutland or DJ Shamar up in the Jackson area, tend to know the local rooms by name and can tell you about them before you finish asking.

What exactly is included in the price?

Get it itemized: hours of coverage, arrival and setup time, ceremony sound, cocktail-hour music, wireless microphones, any lighting, travel. Travel matters more in northern New England than couples expect, and so does lodging if your venue is two hours from anywhere.

What is your overtime rate, and who can authorize it?

Decide this now, while everyone is calm. Agree on the hourly figure and name the one person who is allowed to say yes at eleven at night, because it should not be you and it definitely should not be your cousin.

How do you handle guest requests?

There is no single right answer, but there is a right process. Some entertainers take everything and filter quietly. Some hand it all to a designated friend. What you want to hear is that they will honor your do-not-play list no matter who is asking, including the person asking very persuasively at the booth.

Our piece on do-not-play lists covers how to build one that actually helps them.

Will you make announcements, and how much?

Ask for their natural setting. Some couples want a host who keeps the night moving out loud; others want a nearly invisible one. Both are fine. A mismatch is not. Say plainly which you want and watch whether they adapt or push their usual format.

What do you do when the dance floor empties?

The best answers are unglamorous. Drop the tempo rather than raise it. Go to a song the room grew up with. Check the bar line. Wait out the cake. Anyone who says the floor never empties at their weddings is either new or not telling the truth.

What is your backup plan for equipment, and for you?

Covered in more detail elsewhere on the site, but it belongs on every call. Two of everything critical, and a named human who can cover if they cannot work.

When do we build the timeline, and who else do you talk to?

You want a planning meeting four to six weeks out, and you want them talking directly to the venue, the photographer and the caterer. A DJ who coordinates with your photographer will not start the first dance while the camera is in a different building.

What do you need from me, and when?

Good vendors have deadlines for you, not just for themselves. Music forms, name pronunciations, final timeline. If they have no dates for any of that, you have just found out who is going to be chasing whom.

Can I speak with a couple you worked with in the last few months?

Recent, not a testimonial from 2019. And ask that couple one specific question: what would you have done differently with your entertainment? The answer is always useful.

When you have your three favorites, put them side by side on the 802 Events checklist and send your request to all of them at once. Every entertainer in our directory of New England vendors comes with their town, their real rating and their Google reviews so you can prepare before you dial.

Ready when you are

Put your night together and send it to everyone at once.

It is free, it takes a few minutes, and only the people you choose hear from you. Start on the 802 Events planner or browse the New England vendor directory first.